Empathy without boundaries leads to self destruction.
So no “helping” or teaching others how to suck eggs. It’s arrogant and egotistical anyway. I’m only doing this as I feel I need to help others to show that I’m useful. This just demonstrates low self worth and self esteem.
I am useful and wanted even if most of the time I feel like a dependent teenager.
I don’t need to shop or drink to meet people. It doesn’t work anyway. Best to save the pounds and the calories for a better life. Exercise is good for the mind and the body.
The end of the world has happened so I no longer need to prepare for it. Anxiety and stress are why I did this initially and it’s good to know that I can overcome these behaviours now I have identified them.
I need to feel a connection with people but desperation is no reason to accept everyone into your life. They will come but it’s excruciating waiting for them.
Boundaries are necessary for safety and mental health. It’s not wrong to distance yourself from people. It’s healthy to say no to things you don’t want to do.
Therapy in the form of conversation is necessary on a regular basis to stop insanity from happening.
i have aspergers and m.e .
my blog.http;//mark-kent.webs.com
twitter,supersnopper
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i am from England ..i am co-Author of a book ,JUST PUBLISHED
about ,Disability and sex
can send you a Link
mark
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I’m waiting for it to download but my internet is rather slow so I’m not getting it quickly.
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are you on my blog as we speak.
the book on my blog .IS ALL ABOUT RESEARCH I HAVE TAKEN PART IN
book Disability and sex .IS DIFFERENT why i said can give you a Link
mark
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Ah right ok then. Is it typed as your handwriting is quite difficult to read.
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This is brilliantly written
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Thankyou very much!
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You’re welcome maybe we can follow each other! I love anything that provides crucial info to autism.
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Are you newly diagnosed? Yes I can follow you.
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I was actually diagnosed when I was 1 I’m now 27. I just love anyone that understands it!
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Have you met many other autistics before?
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Yes I have I was to special needs in school and I have gone to many different places/programs with them.
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Life must be very difficult for you.
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I don’t know about very difficult but it has definitely been rough.
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Others are not nice but there is nothing you can do about that.
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True, you’re amazing!
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Nothing like feeling understood and appreciated is there.
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Yeah not enough understand me
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You want to feel part of a team, to feel valued and to have a purpose in your life. You would like friends, possibly a partner, maybe even a child. Is this not too far off the mark?
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That’s a phenomenal more in depth of the treasure chest, I need in my life!
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It’s amazing what you can learn about yourself from Buddhists!
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I love Buddhism so I can I respect that
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You seem nice btw
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Thanks but you didn’t answer my question.
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Weird I thought I did
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It’s ok you answered in the first comment but I read the second one first so I didn’t see.
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You’re right that the Corona panic has beaten down our psyches and given some good tips to combat this problem. Thank you for following my blog . Stay well.
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Thankyou for reading. I appreciate your words too.
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